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I think that taking a step back and looking at servers in general, things are going pretty well! The amount of servers has dramatically decreased, but there are a lot more small, well made servers with a reasonable amount of players now, rather than a few servers that are well made monopolizing the players, as was the case in 11.0-14.0 I'm enjoying the general sense of the community more, and people seem more mature now. I would come back because I think some great things are going to happen in the community, even though many say it's dying. I think we're just restarting, as we can see from this wonderful forum.
But it feels more like a group of people that love playing the game with some other players on small servers, rather than sheeple on a massive server.